What's so funny?

Actually, it makes a lot of difference. And, it may surprise you to know the Bible has a lot to say on this subject. Anciently, Solomon wrote, "A merry heart does good, like medicine…" He also wrote, "A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance..." And, isn't it true that how we feel usually shows on our face?

But the question remains, what really is funny? With whole television networks devoted to nightclub-type stand-up comedy, with late night shows devoted to topical, satirical humor, with sitcoms that present an unrealistic view of family life, with all that is on the Internet, how can one know what is good humor and what is not really funny at all, and maybe even harmful?

The "Golden Rule" of "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is a good place to start. Does the humor make someone the butt of the joke? Does it involve ridicule, or sarcasm, putting down someone or some ethnic group? If so, it is probably not funny, since most of us don't enjoy being made fun of.

And then, consider the Ten Commandments that make up the basic code of Godly conduct for mankind. You know them, though they aren't posted in many public places anymore: Honor God and His name, honor your parents, remember the day of rest, no murder, no sexual misconduct, no stealing, no lying, and no coveting of what belongs to others. If humor makes fun of or disregards or disrespects any of these rules for living, then it's not funny to our Heavenly Father.

How about most practical jokes? Surely the Bible doesn't say anything about such activities, does it? Actually, it does, in Proverbs 26:18-19 it states "Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and death, is the man who deceives his neighbor, and says, 'I was only joking!'" Such tricks are not truly funny and often lead to reprisals and hard feelings.

There is much to enjoy in this life that involves clean, wholesome fun and genuine good humor and laughter. Little children are an endless source of joy and laughter. Our human foibles within families, among friends and business associates can be a source of good fun and good-natured ribbing that doesn't hurt or embarrass.

So, the next time you enjoy a belly laugh and chortle at something you find humorous, ask yourself, "What's so funny?" If it falls within these general guidelines, you can enjoy it to the full. If not, look for humor in some other place. Remember the words of Jesus Christ, "But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned" (Matthew 12:36-37).

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